Every summer I make the same claim.
I will never wait in line for a midnight movie.
Of course, I find myself in the same position; I, standing sweaty because of the crowding of personal space annoyed at the people cutting in line some of which didn’t even buy a ticket. This bothers me to no end. My lovely bride to be can vouch for that.
Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows, the latest movie of the century, biggest box office smash of the summer; was it worth the four hour wait and constant aggravation?
Absolutely!
Now, I will admit I am tired. But while sitting in line with a couple thousand people buzzing around me I started to see something I didn’t expect.
I saw the summer, past, present, and future.
I saw hundreds of teenagers. I could tell the fans and the kids that were there to hang out with their crush. I saw the exhausted parents barely holding onto sanity while their children played with their wands. Then I saw many people like myself.
People in their mid to late 20’s who grew up reading the books, most of these people, like myself were wearing various comic book character t-shirts. Of course there are at least a couple Star Wars shirts as well.
But as I looked around I began to see the cycle of summer. Most, if not all of those teenagers had no cares in the world that night. School is out and their parents gave them enough money to do whatever they wanted. The biggest concern they had was who is going to sit next to them. I remember having that feeling. The summer was the ultimate sense of independence for a teenager.
I remember sitting down with friends and planning out when and where we would see every summer movie. I remember summers for me were slurpee’s, too much free time, fear of roller coasters, and a whole lot of cartoon network. I remember feeling care free and life, at that time felt good to have no responsibility.
The twenty somethings have a lot more on their plate. Juggling their adult world with their childlike interests can get in the way of each other. I understand this better than most. I have a three year old daughter, I have a great job, and I have a beautiful fiancé. I have responsibilities.
With all of this responsibility, I am nothing more than a big kid. I’m such a man boy that my wife has been searching in every store in Greenville to find me a Superman beach towel for vacation.
The summers are not care free. The summer brings fun movies but higher energy bills and gas prices. This brings us to the older parents with their kids. Now I find myself relating to this group more so than the other two now.
I am normally in bed by 10pm every night. I am afraid of my own energy bill and as you have read above 12:01 showings have lost their appeal. I saw one father. There was worry and fear all over his face.
He was looking at his daughter.
I could tell he lost a battle over her wardrobe. She was wearing shorts and a top that had the boy’s attention. His face dropped as several boys came over hugging her and making any excuse to touch her.
Like I said before, I have a three year old daughter. I made my wife aware of the situation and I told her Haiydan would never be allowed to wear that type of outfit. She patted me on the shoulder and agreed with me.
I am sure I will need to watch my blood pressure in the future. I could feel the worry and fear of that man’s face transfer to mine. I began to think of Haiydan’s summers filled with dates, skirts, and boys. I admit, and almost pride myself in the fact I am a worrier, especially when it comes to my little girl.
I think summer means something different to everyone. I see how the definition has changed for me over the years. But movies are still a big part of them. For many, summer is the time to set things in order.
For example, garage and yard sales are a way for people to reestablish order in their homes. People get active and lose their winter weight. Summer, in some capacity for everyone is freedom.
I remember cruising on summer nights with my friends just because there was nothing else to do. I think people tend to think differently about things in the summer, even their vehicles.
People depend on their vehicle to fully connect to the freedom of the summer, whether it’s a teenager working part time for gas money or a family driving to their vacation spot. Everyone, at any age can connect to the independence of summer. It helps however to have a dependable vehicle to get you there.
Even if you are trying to get back to Hogwarts.
P.S. If anyone has any idea where to get a Superman Towel Please email me @ joneal@greenvillenissan.com